Lost and Found: The U-Turn That Changes Everything

Exploring the profound themes of loss, forgiveness, and unconditional love through biblical parables and personal reflections, this talk offers deep insights into human relationships and spiritual growth. Video Description: When Fr. Nareg Terterian thought he had lost his wedding ring during a snowy ski trip, the long drive home was filled with anxiety. That unsettling feeling of losing something precious becomes the doorway into one of the most powerful chapters in the Gospel. In this Sunday’s reflection at St. Sarkis Church in Douglaston, Fr. Nareg explores Luke 15 and the three “lost and found” parables: the Lost Sheep, the Lost Coin, and the Prodigal Son. Through these timeless stories, Jesus reveals something profound about human nature, happiness, resentment, patience, and unconditional love. What truly makes us happy? Is it security, possessions, and pleasure, or meaningful relationships? Why do we sometimes resent the blessings of others? And how can negativity quietly steal our joy? Fr. Nareg reflects on the younger son’s mistakes and reminds us that growth often comes through failure, though wisdom must guide our choices. He examines the older brother’s resentment, inviting us to confront our own negativity and practice genuine gratitude instead of performative goodness. And ultimately, he focuses on the most important character in the story: the Father. Before the son even finishes his confession, the Father runs, embraces, and restores him. Forgiveness comes before the full explanation. Love comes before perfection. Grace comes at the moment of the U-turn. This sermon reminds us that happiness is found in meaning and relationships, not excess. Negativity and comparison rob us of joy. Patience allows healing to unfold over time. And God’s love is unconditional and waiting for our return. Where do you see yourself in the story? Are you the one who wandered? The one who resents? Or the one invited to love like the Father? Join us as we reflect on the Sunday of the Prodigal Son and rediscover the joy of being found.